You can simply be devastated and lay there in your bed,all day long ,sobbing. Simply cuz that is what everybody else do. You can lay there and regret the decisions,deeds and your whole living. You may try to forget everything that was you. But when everything is done,in the soon coming end,then you will look back and regret the whole drama all over again. So,what's the point?
You may listen to your parents,obey when they order and go that way. Im not objecting. Because even if i did,you wont have the willpower to do so. It takes exactly that,willpower,to stand up on your own and face the world. To be a man,or say woman.
Two years ago,when my father told me that he want me to do enggineering rather than a buisiness management course with 50 percent scholarship,i conceded. I made a deal,that he is gonna let me study in the big city if im gonna do enggineering. Of course i had plans in my mind.
One year into the deal,and 7 backlogs,that was the amount of time it took me to find my friends. Us four,deeply in love couples and collegemates,we had something in common,our love for music. Well,lets say that is actually what brought us togeather. Of course,we are too far from perfection or victory. But we are not utter failures. At least we tried.
Let me say something,this world is everchanging. People come and go,things happen. The one thing that can really break us is our relationship. Best advice,keep distance. Not that you have to ignore your parents,avoid your family or anything,but be detatched. Be ready to breakaway on a second's notice. It is better that having your heart broken. And then,listen to your heart. Pamper those sweet memories . Follow your instincts,the love of your life,your passion and soon enough you will find your self. . . . .
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